For couples who prefer understated romance, Valentine’s Day can be a bit cringeworthy. The typical expectations – lavish dinners, over-the-top gestures, and copious red roses – might not resonate with everyone. If you’re looking to avoid the clichés and focus on what really matters, your relationship, we’ve got some unique ideas that will allow you to celebrate in a way that feels authentic to you both.
Cocktail Evening…
Ditch the overpriced cocktail bars teeming with strangers and opt for a cozy homemade gathering instead. You can even don your comfiest PJs! The idea of transforming it into a friendly competition where you judge each other’s creations on design, taste, and creativity is particularly appealing. After all, a little bit of friendly rivalry never hurt anyone.
Walk & Picnic…
As the day cools down and the sky takes on a warm orange hue, there’s something undeniably charming about embarking on a leisurely walk with your loved one. Whether it’s a familiar route or a new discovery, taking in the sights and sounds of nature together can be incredibly romantic. And what better way to cap off the evening than with a picnic in a secluded spot, watching the stars twinkle to life as the sun dips below the horizon?
It’s a simple yet effective way to connect with your partner without feeling like you’re trying too hard – just two people, enjoying each other’s company and the beauty of the world around them.
Lunch Date…
Valentine’s Day falling on a Sunday presents the perfect opportunity to shake things up and make the most of your time together. Ditch the traditional dinner date for something more relaxed, yet still special – grab lunch at your go-to spot! You can keep things casual or dress it up however you like, making for a unique and enjoyable experience that’s all about the two of you.
Breakfast In Bed…
Imagine waking up on a lazy Sunday morning to the sound of gentle chatter and the warmth of a loving embrace. Starting the day with breakfast in bed, surrounded by your favorite person, is an experience that’s both indulgent and intimate. While it may seem like a rare treat for some, it can be easily replicated at home without breaking the bank. By bringing the hotel experience to your own bedroom, you can create a relaxing atmosphere that’s perfect for a cozy morning in with your loved one.
So why not start by brewing a fresh pot of coffee, heating up some flaky pastries, and pouring a glass of freshly squeezed orange juice? It’s the perfect way to slow down and savor the moment, making even the most mundane days feel like a special occasion.
Visit Your Special Place…
As couples, we often have a special place that holds meaning and sentimental value. Today’s exercise invites you to pay homage to this spot by revisiting the memories that make it so significant. It might be where you exchanged vows, or perhaps a location that holds a particular charm for both of you. Take some time to reflect on the moments you’ve shared in this place, reliving the laughter, tears, and everyday moments that have shaped your relationship.
For those who might consider this a bit too sappy, we say, ‘Nonsense!’ Revisiting happy memories is an essential part of nurturing a strong bond with our loved ones. Allow yourself to get lost in the joy and love you’ve shared at this special spot.
Movie Night…
There’s something uniquely special about collecting your go-to snacks and cozying up for a movie night with your loved one. It’s an affordable and effortless way to bond, making it a staple in many relationships. Whether you’re catching up on a long-awaited release or revisiting a classic favorite, the experience is all about creating memories together.
Cook Together…
While traditional Valentine’s Day plans often involve a romantic dinner at a restaurant, consider doing something different this year. The idea of set menus, cheesy ‘love’ themes, and being surrounded by other couples may not be everyone’s cup of tea. Why not take the opportunity to cook together instead? With busy schedules often leaving little time for quality moments like sharing a home-cooked meal, Valentine’s Day is the perfect excuse to break out the recipes and experiment with new dishes.
You can even find inspiration on Pinterest and try something entirely new!
PJ Day…
Are lounge days a thing for you too? I’m guessing after lockdown, the idea of having an excuse to relax might be a welcome change. As life gets busier again, there’s no harm in taking a break and making the most of it! Pj days can sometimes come with a tinge of guilt, but they’re the perfect opportunity to unwind, enjoy quality time with loved ones, indulge in your favorite foods, and binge-watch your go-to shows. Who says relaxation has to be expensive or busy?
It’s all about finding that balance and making time for what truly matters.